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What skills should kids build that AI can't replace?

Ryan Kiick, CEO of Revolution Prep, draws the line between offloading a skill you already own and never acquiring it in the first place, and names what he thinks holds up: real-time communication, executive functioning, and the habit of learning itself.

Video published 2026-02-11 · 67:29 · watch on YouTube

The short answer

The skills that hold up are the ones AI cannot do for a student in real time: thinking and speaking on the spot, executive functioning, and the ability to keep learning after school ends. Ryan Kiick, CEO of Revolution Prep, says the thing to protect is acquisition, because using AI for a skill you have already mastered is “very different in my opinion than having never acquired those skills in the first place.” His own test is small and concrete: he can still work out the tip at a restaurant if the power goes out, and what concerns him is a student who cannot function once the calculator or the chatbot is taken away. The practical move he recommends is to stop treating AI as an answer machine and start asking it to ask you questions.

Step by step

  1. Ask whether the skill is being offloaded or skipped ▶6:21

    This is Kiick's whole distinction, and it is the one question worth asking before a kid uses AI on a task. If they could do it themselves and are handing it off to save time, that is offloading. If they have never been able to do it, AI is standing in for a skill that was never built. Kiick's example is the tip at a restaurant: he can still work it out if the power goes out. A student who has only ever had the calculator and the chatbot is in a different position.

  2. Use AI to ask questions, not to hand over answers ▶17:21

    Kiick says the second mistake is thinking what AI is uniquely good at is providing answers, because once you see it that way it starts taking your agency and autonomy. His alternative is to describe the problem and then say: I want you to ask me questions. He did this with a business problem at Revolution Prep and the model came back with things like how long has that been a problem, what have you tried, what haven't you tried. His team got to the answer themselves. The same prompt works on a school project, and it leaves the thinking with the student.

  3. Give them work only they can produce ▶8:40

    Kiick separates writing as a skill from writing as an assignment. A paper defending a position on The Great Gatsby is something AI already knows. An assignment that asks about a time the student overcame a challenge is not, because, as he puts it, AI does not know his experience. When the output can only come from within, it at least forces the first draft to come from the student. Kiick is relaxed about what happens next: dropping that draft into AI to tidy up the grammar is, in his view, not that different from asking an older brother or an English teacher what could be better.

  4. Keep a hand on the pen ▶11:39

    Kiick says physically writing your own notes commits things to memory far more effectively than typing them, and that an AI notetaker that records the lecture and sends a summary is further down the same road. He is specific about what that buys you: it can get you past the test, but come back to the same topic a month or two or three later and you have probably lost it. He calls it a short-term transactional way of learning. He uses notetakers himself for thirty-minute meetings where the point is to be present and move the ball forward, not to retain anything.

  5. Spend the effort on executive functioning ▶63:06

    When Nick asks what families should actually do, this is the first concrete skill Kiick names: prioritization, organization, motivation, and being able to move things into working memory quickly and efficiently. He also notes the gap between talk and action here. A lot of parents suspect their kid needs this and still never seek out an actual intervention. Paired with it is the one he treats as the real moat: being a learner is a skill, and it is not memorization. It is adaptation and curiosity, and he thinks it can be trained.

  6. Make them an informed college consumer, starting with the outcome ▶60:46

    Kiick's advice is to get crystal clear on the outcome that matters first, then work backwards. If the career requires a graduate degree, no one is going to care where the undergraduate degree came from, so one route is to go somewhere you will be one of the higher performers, take the honors scholarship, and spend the brand money on the graduate program instead. He says early earnings are tied more to the major than to the individual institution. His warning is about order: pick schools on campus feel or a Division I football program first and you can end up stuck with something expensive that does not lead where you wanted to go.

“That is very different in my opinion than having never acquired those skills in the first place.”

Nick Standlea, in the video

Key moments

Questions people ask

is it bad for my kid to use chatgpt for homework

Ryan Kiick does not treat this as a yes or no question. For writing that is an assignment rather than a passion, on a topic the student has no interest in, he says it is okay to have a little bit more bolstering of tools along the way, and he compares it to using a calculator to take off some of the heavy lift. The line he draws is mastery. Where the point is to actually acquire the skill, letting AI stand in for it is the problem, because that is not offloading something the student owns.

what skills will ai not be able to replace

Kiick's list is weighted toward anything real time. Strong communication, real-time agility when you do not have immediate access to AI, coming up with an idea and overcoming objections to it, resiliency, grit, and executive functioning. He expects the value of one-to-one, real-time human connection to hold for quite some time. He is also willing to say which way the other side goes: the ability to do something like an algebraic proof may diminish, because that can be offloaded.

how do i get my kid to use ai without becoming dependent on it

The pattern Kiick recommends is to use AI for its questions rather than its answers. You state the problem and ask the model to interview you, which keeps the reasoning with the person. He pairs that with giving students tasks where the output can only come from them, since AI cannot write about an experience it does not have. In his words, AI helped his team but it did not replace them, it made them better in that moment.

will the college essay go away because of ai

Kiick says a lot of things could happen and that it could go the way of the dodo, but he does not predict that it will. He points out that every applicant could always theoretically have had someone else write the essay, so this is not new, only easier and more accessible. His guess at the first wave is colleges pushing the prompts to be even more highly personalized. After that he wonders about a recorded answer instead: you log into the school's platform, you are given a question, and you get thirty minutes to tell them your answer, ums and all. As he puts it, he is pretty sure you are not getting help on that one.

does handwriting notes actually help you remember

Kiick says there are studies showing that physically writing your own notes commits things to memory far more effectively than sitting in a room taking notes on a laptop, and he treats an automated notetaker as a further step away again. He does not cite a figure. The distinction he draws is between passing the test and still having the material: review an AI summary and you can do well on the exam, but come back to the topic a month or two or three later and it is probably gone.

what is executive functioning and why does it matter in the age of ai

Kiick defines it by its parts: prioritization, organization, motivation, and the ability to move things into working memory quickly and efficiently. It matters because it is the layer AI does not supply for you. He also makes a business observation about it. Everyone seems to talk about executive functioning, a lot of parents think their kid probably needs it, and most of them still do not go seek out an actual intervention.

does it matter which college you go to anymore

Kiick's position is that the outcome is tied more to the major than to the individual institution, and his blunt version is that out of the gates an accounting degree from a state school beats a sociology degree from Harvard for getting a job. Where brand does carry weight is at the graduate level for certain careers. He says that correlation has never really been proven at the undergraduate level. He also likes to point out who actually has the lowest admit rate in the country: you, because you can only attend one college out of thousands.

how do i know if my kid is really learning or just getting through the test

The test Kiick offers is time. Come back to the same topic weeks or months later, without having used it in between, and see whether it is still there. If it is gone, what happened was short-term transactional learning. Nick makes the related point in the episode: if school is oriented around absorbing just enough to do well on a test, the incentives are not pointed at long-term retention, and he thinks the structure needs adjusting so they are.

This guide is drawn from a full conversation on the show.

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